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Cute girls, working relationships, and stuff…

So the newest batch of agents to graduate from our illustrious training program hit the floor on Tuesday. As with any group of new agents, they need a lot of guidance. In the evenings, I’m usually the only person trained to help these people out (the luck of the schedules), so I’ve been spending my evenings, devoting my time to make sure they don’t crash and burn.

Among the sea of tech support reps, my eyes settled on one particular young woman. I instantly thought she was cute, definitely my type. Over the course of these last two days, I’ve had to help her out a bit, a task I have no problem with. It seems she likes teh anime, seeing as I noticed an Otakon badge on her bag as she left, and she was sporting a They Might Be Giants shirt yesterday. So far, the signs point to her being someone I would enjoy spending more time with. To top it off, she seems genuinely happy when I come by (though that could be her joy in having help).

As you can probably tell, I’m developing the hint of a crush on this girl. Alas, all is not well in Tomland. When I first started out working, I set for myself a policy that I would not date coworkers. In the past, this was always an easy policy to stick to, since the girls that worked here were never all that much to call home about. I’m also a manager now… I can’t afford to pursue a relationship with someone who has to answer to me.

And that is the crux of the issue… I can’t even approach her to ask if she wants to hang out, or do anything else that, if anything, would allow me to get to know her better. I’m already kinda shy, so it’s not like I’m meeting girls all the time (but I’ve been told I should not be shy since all the girls at my job “like” me, even if I don’t reciprocate those feelings). Add to that the fact I’ve been girlfriendless for about a year and a half… and I’m feeling just a smidge lonely.

Sux.

Oh well, yet another incentive to get a new job, I guess =D

-Tom

So I’ve been a bit busy…

I’m too tired to go on at length at what has transpired in my life… mostly because with the exception of a few small events, life has been uninteresting. Of note, I applied for a job at Panic, which I hope works out, but I got an email from them stating that they got a lot of entries, so I’m not holding my breath, though I hope for the best.

In other news, I made a quick trip to NYC and later, Albany, because Eileen was in town from Japan to take the Bar exam. I’m still convinced this is just some twisted plot of hers to become a lawyer and then turn around and sue me. Well, if so, I prolly deserve it =P Also, I must state publicly that driving in and around New York City is a bitch, but the Catskills is a beautiful region. Woah.

Learning to program in Lisp is slow going, but productive. It’s a very interesting language. I purchased Unison (from Panic Software, natch) to allow me to read the comp.lang.lisp Usenet newsgroup. It’s pretty enlightening, albeit intimidating. There was one post about Lisp programmers needed at CMU for a robotics project. Needless to say, I applied.

Hrm… oh yeah, might as well make a quick note about my current love life: still sucks, carry on. I think one of (the few) cute female workers at AQ actually hit on me, but I only heard part of it, and when I asked her what she said, she blushed and quickly said it was unimportant. Oh well, as a rule, I don’t date coworkers. bleh

BTW: I just picked up the entire Macross saga on DVD. I shouldn’t have, but it is no longer being released by AnimEigo and it’s getting harder and harder to find. So I took the plunge before I found myself scouring eBay for a used copy.

And now, back to your regularly scheduled normalcy…

-Tom

Gettin’ girls…

So my brother posted his suggestion on how I can meet some girls…

Interesting…

-Tom